Add bootsnap handling for installs and upgrades

[jrafanie]

Like we do for the descendant loader for single table inheritance support and pre-compiling assets, I believe we need to handle how bootsnap works.

Bootsnap was added in najdorf and handles optimizing loading for ruby files. By default our gems are considered stable and not going to change:

The only directories considered "stable" are things under the Ruby install prefix (RbConfig::CONFIG['prefix'], e.g. /usr/local/ruby or ~/.rubies/x.y.z), and things under the Gem.path (e.g. ~/.gem/ruby/x.y.z) or Bundler.bundle_path. Everything else is considered "volatile".

From: https://github.com/Shopify/bootsnap?tab=readme-ov-file#path-pre-scanning

It doesn't look like we currently ship a bootsnap cache, so in production, I believe it will be built on first usage. If this is the case, it's possible any of these caches in locations considered "stable", such as our engine gems, could be changed in a rpm update but the bootsnap cache may be not cleared.

It sounds like they suggest to remove the cache directory whenever you want to rebuild the cache, so perhaps that should be done as part of the build and an rpm upgrade should know to clear the existing cache before installing the new files containing the new cache.