nftables backend

[nvandamme]

What would you like to add or change?:
On systems where nftable is available, prefer using nftable over iptables and avoid relying on iptables-nft compatibility layer.

Why do you and others need this?:
iptables is slowly being replaced by nftable on recent linux kernels

[github-actions]

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