Fix dangling-reference warnings for particle functions.

[philip-blakely]

Summary

With gcc 13.2 and all warnings/errors turned on, some particle functions generate a dangling-reference error.
This PR fixes those errors.

Additional background

To reproduce, in Tests/Particles/ParticleMesh/main.cpp add lines 149-150:

myPC.IncrementWithTotal(acceleration , 0);
myPC.SortParticlesForDeposition({0,0,0});

and in Tests/Particles/ParticleMesh/GNUmakefile
add a final line:

CXXFLAGS += -Werror -Wall -Wextra

Similar lines in:
./Src/Extern/SENSEI/AMReX_ParticleDataAdaptorI.H
may also have the same error, but I don't have SENSEI installed to check.

Checklist

The proposed changes:

• fix a bug or incorrect behavior in AMReX
• add new capabilities to AMReX
• changes answers in the test suite to more than roundoff level
• are likely to significantly affect the results of downstream AMReX users
• include documentation in the code and/or rst files, if appropriate