make it "work"

[threepointone]

This is a hack to get the relay to not disconnect after 40 seconds. Specifically, it patches the openai package to accept a custom WebSocket implementation, and we pass our own version that reconnects. We also disallow the openai client from explicitly ending the session when the websocket disconnects on a 1011.

This is not a full fix, in the frontend console app I'm getting errors (like Cannot set properties of undefined (setting 'audio_end_ms') I'm not sure whether it's related to the websocket in the backend reconnecting just yet. I'm still investigating.

I've removed the pnpm lockfile and used plain npm, since I need to use patch-package, which doesn't work with pnpm (and I couldn't figure out how to get pnpm patch to work with a github: repo dependency)