enhance: Enable manual start component in standalone

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issue: #37871
Enable param 'common.standalone.manualStartComponent' to config roles, which shoule be blocked to run during start a standalone service. then user can call management api /management/start to manual start a role in standalone service.

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 49.01961% with 26 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 81.05%. Comparing base (fbb68ca) to head (f343af4).
Report is 4 commits behind head on master.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
internal/http/server.go	0.00%	16 Missing ⚠️
internal/http/healthz/healthz_handler.go	64.28%	10 Missing ⚠️

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  Lines      190775   190811      +36     
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- Hits       154671   154666       -5     
- Misses      30620    30661      +41     
  Partials     5484     5484              

Components	Coverage Δ
Client	72.33% <ø> (ø)
Core	68.87% <ø> (ø)
Go	83.22% <49.01%> (-0.02%)	⬇️

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
pkg/util/paramtable/component_param.go	98.36% <100.00%> (+<0.01%)	⬆️
internal/http/healthz/healthz_handler.go	72.97% <64.28%> (+2.00%)	⬆️
internal/http/server.go	66.86% <0.00%> (-7.14%)	⬇️

... and 39 files with indirect coverage changes

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