[BUILD] Support to use different cmake package CONFIG of dependencies. #8480

Job	Run time
Bazel noexcept	19m 33s
Bazel asan config	10m 35s
Bazel nortti	27m 54s
Bazel on MacOS	29m 47s
Bazel	25m 22s
Bazel with async export	21m 8s
Bazel tsan config	28m 20s
Bazel valgrind	23m 2s
Bazel with external abseil	20m 49s
Benchmark	17m 34s
CMake test (with abseil)	8m 57s
CMake clang 14 (maintainer mode, async)	17m 54s
CMake clang 14 (maintainer mode, sync)	18m 42s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	28m 32s
CMake gcc 4.8 (with otlp exporter)	20m 20s
CMake gcc 4.8 (without otlp exporter)	6m 2s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, async)	11m 20s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, C++11, async)	11m 11s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, sync)	12m 16s
CMake install test (with abseil)	6m 32s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	34m 27s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	13m 31s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	6m 38s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	25m 50s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	24m 20s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter)	6m 46s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	11m 32s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	16m 55s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	8m 8s
Code coverage	14m 37s
Copyright	12s
DocFX check	37s
Format	22s
Plugin -> CMake	1m 37s
markdown-lint	9s
misspell	6s
CMake -> exporter proto	23m 38s
Bazel Windows	48m 51s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	9m 47s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	22m 53s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	18m 20s
	10h 55m 6s

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