[BUILD] Support to use different cmake package CONFIG of dependencies. #8580

Job	Run time
CMake clang 14 (maintainer mode, async)	21m 27s
CMake test (with abseil)	7m 22s
CMake clang 14 (maintainer mode, sync)	17m 31s
CMake gcc 4.8 (with otlp exporter)	14m 14s
CMake gcc 4.8 (without otlp exporter)	7m 48s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, async)	13m 6s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, C++11, async)	10m 58s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, sync)	11m 12s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	16m 24s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	7m 26s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter)	7m 10s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	12m 26s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	13m 12s
Bazel asan config	12m 51s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	6m 47s
Bazel noexcept	18m 24s
Bazel nortti	19m 33s
Bazel on MacOS	28m 27s
Bazel	22m 55s
Bazel with async export	24m 4s
Bazel tsan config	21m 47s
Bazel valgrind	26m 43s
Bazel with external abseil	23m 38s
Benchmark	12m 41s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	19m 53s
CMake install test (with abseil)	7m 7s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	29m 8s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	28m 27s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	22m 8s
Copyright	10s
Format	23s
Plugin -> CMake	1m 17s
CMake -> exporter proto	24m 56s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	17m 31s
Code coverage	13m 55s
DocFX check	1m 12s
markdown-lint	10s
misspell	10s
Bazel Windows	48m 31s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	12m 59s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	19m 45s
	10h 25m 48s

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