[BUILD] Support to use different cmake package CONFIG of dependencies. #8597

Job	Run time
CMake clang 14 (maintainer mode, abiv2)	17m 27s
CMake clang 14 (maintainer mode, async)	17m 30s
CMake clang 14 (maintainer mode, sync)	17m 37s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, async)	10m 38s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, C++11, async)	15m 21s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, sync)	13m 8s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	10m 50s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter)	7m 12s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	6m 56s
CMake test (with abseil)	8m 34s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	29m 51s
CMake gcc 4.8 (with otlp exporter)	17m 56s
CMake gcc 4.8 (without otlp exporter)	5m 45s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	28m 38s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	6m 50s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	20m 48s
CMake C++14 test(GCC)	5m 44s
CMake C++17 test(GCC)	8m 40s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	13m 54s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	11m 52s
Bazel asan config	10m 40s
Bazel noexcept	24m 15s
Bazel nortti	20m 28s
Bazel on MacOS	26m 49s
Bazel	19m 9s
Bazel with async export	18m 54s
Bazel tsan config	21m 5s
Bazel valgrind	23m 52s
Bazel with external abseil	19m 4s
Benchmark	12m 22s
CMake install test (with abseil)	6m 18s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	20m 35s
Code coverage	14m 12s
Copyright	13s
DocFX check	1m 29s
Format	20s
markdown-lint	9s
misspell	10s
Plugin -> CMake	1m 23s
CMake -> exporter proto	17m 32s
Bazel Windows	34m 57s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	10m 40s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	17m 27s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	18m 16s
	10h 15m 30s

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