[CI] Upgrade to abseil 20240116.1 (CMake only) #9339

Job	Run time
Bazel asan config	7m 13s
Bazel noexcept	4m 5s
Bazel nortti	5m 13s
Bazel on MacOS	4m 47s
Bazel	3m 8s
Bazel with async export	3m 34s
Bazel tsan config	4m 56s
Bazel valgrind	3m 10s
Bazel with external abseil	6m 26s
Benchmark	3m 53s
CMake test (with abseil)	4m 42s
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, abiv2)	14m 8s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	15m 40s
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, sync)	14m 28s
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, async)	14m 1s
CMake gcc 13 (maintainer mode, async)	7m 23s
CMake gcc 13 (maintainer mode, sync)	6m 39s
CMake install test (with abseil)	4m 26s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	18m 3s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	7m 39s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode) with C++20	8m 18s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	4m 11s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	14m 3s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	13m 50s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter)	5m 0s
CMake C++17 test(GCC)	4m 56s
CMake C++14 test(GCC)	4m 51s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	9m 36s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	8m 54s
CMake C++23 test(Clang with libc++)	9m 28s
CMake C++23 test(GCC)	8m 48s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	4m 55s
Code coverage	12m 1s
Copyright	7s
DocFX check	35s
Format	13s
misspell	9s
markdown-lint	12s
CMake -> exporter proto	12m 13s
Plugin -> CMake	1m 11s
Bazel Windows	18m 46s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	6m 55s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	11m 46s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	25m 5s
	5h 39m 37s

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