[CI] Upgrade to abseil 20240116.1 (CMake only) #9351

Job	Run time
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, abiv2)	14m 28s
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, async)	14m 3s
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, sync)	13m 55s
CMake gcc 13 (maintainer mode, async)	6m 38s
CMake gcc 13 (maintainer mode, sync)	7m 3s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	7m 27s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode) with C++20	8m 10s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter)	4m 42s
CMake test (with abseil)	4m 45s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	4m 21s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	13m 47s
CMake C++14 test(GCC)	4m 11s
CMake C++17 test(GCC)	4m 38s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	9m 35s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	9m 5s
CMake C++23 test(Clang with libc++)	9m 27s
CMake C++23 test(GCC)	8m 45s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	4m 51s
Bazel asan config	6m 11s
Bazel noexcept	4m 27s
Bazel nortti	4m 41s
Bazel on MacOS	15m 24s
Bazel	5m 56s
Bazel with async export	5m 47s
Bazel valgrind	5m 49s
Bazel tsan config	6m 44s
Bazel with external abseil	12m 32s
Benchmark	4m 5s
CMake install test (with abseil)	4m 39s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	13m 39s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	18m 35s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	13m 40s
Copyright	7s
Format	12s
Plugin -> CMake	54s
Code coverage	11m 33s
DocFX check	48s
markdown-lint	6s
misspell	4s
CMake -> exporter proto	12m 18s
Bazel Windows	10m 37s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	6m 19s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	11m 46s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	31m 9s
	5h 57m 53s

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