[CI] Upgrade to abseil 20240116.1 (CMake only) #9360

Job	Run time
Bazel asan config	6m 14s
Bazel nortti	4m 38s
Bazel noexcept	6m 38s
Bazel on MacOS	15m 0s
Bazel	5m 0s
Bazel with async export	6m 11s
Bazel tsan config	7m 22s
Bazel valgrind	6m 28s
Bazel with external abseil	12m 48s
Benchmark	3m 49s
CMake test (with abseil)	5m 13s
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, abiv2)	14m 2s
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, async)	14m 11s
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, sync)	13m 55s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	14m 2s
CMake gcc 13 (maintainer mode, async)	6m 47s
CMake gcc 13 (maintainer mode, sync)	6m 31s
CMake install test (with abseil)	4m 20s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	17m 49s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	7m 23s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode) with C++20	8m 34s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	4m 24s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	13m 53s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	14m 47s
CMake C++14 test(GCC)	4m 3s
CMake C++17 test(GCC)	5m 43s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter)	4m 50s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	9m 17s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	9m 23s
CMake C++23 test(Clang with libc++)	9m 19s
CMake C++23 test(GCC)	8m 48s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	4m 33s
Code coverage	11m 47s
Copyright	5s
DocFX check	39s
Format	24s
markdown-lint	6s
misspell	4s
Plugin -> CMake	1m 13s
CMake -> exporter proto	11m 42s
Bazel Windows	11m 27s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	6m 22s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	12m 21s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	26m 1s
	5h 58m 6s

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