handle bundle(d)Dependencies in bun install

[dylan-conway]

What does this PR do?

Avoids installing bundle(d)Dependencies, and uses them in the resolution graph to prevent overwriting with another version.

closes #8780
fixes #10368

How did you verify your code works?

tests:

• "bundleDependencies": true
• with binary lockfile
• with text lockfile
• transitive dependency collision, one bundled one not bundled
• npm, git, folder, and workspaces with bundledDependencies

[robobun]

^{Updated 1:07 PM PT - Dec 31st, 2024}

❌ @dylan-conway, your commit c9645d5 has 2 failures in #8744:

• test/js/bun/http/serve-body-leak.test.ts - timeout on 🪟 2019 x64
• test/js/bun/http/serve-body-leak.test.ts - timeout on 🪟 2019 x64-baseline
• test/js/web/fetch/fetch.test.ts - 1 failing on 🍎 13 aarch64

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