[BUILD] Bump cmake version to 3.9 (#2581) #81

Job	Run time
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, sync)	14m 3s
CMake gcc 13 (maintainer mode, async)	6m 28s
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, abiv2)	13m 45s
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, async)	14m 14s
CMake gcc 13 (maintainer mode, sync)	6m 35s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	7m 39s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode) with C++20	8m 23s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter)	4m 53s
CMake test (with abseil)	4m 32s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	18m 41s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	4m 28s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	13m 56s
CMake C++14 test(GCC)	4m 9s
CMake C++17 test(GCC)	4m 33s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	9m 36s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	8m 25s
CMake C++23 test(Clang with libc++)	9m 41s
CMake C++23 test(GCC)	8m 39s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	5m 12s
Bazel asan config	15m 11s
Bazel noexcept	12m 12s
Bazel nortti	12m 11s
Bazel on MacOS	13m 39s
Bazel	12m 6s
Bazel with async export	12m 15s
Bazel tsan config	12m 34s
Bazel valgrind	13m 48s
Bazel with external abseil	12m 18s
Benchmark	8m 12s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	13m 41s
CMake install test (with abseil)	4m 16s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	13m 22s
Plugin -> CMake	1m 12s
Code coverage	11m 51s
Copyright	6s
DocFX check	54s
Format	12s
markdown-lint	7s
misspell	3s
CMake -> exporter proto	12m 18s
Bazel Windows	20m 5s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	6m 31s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	11m 48s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	21m 56s
	6h 50m 40s

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