Fixes a issue with multus and webhook not working when the manifest file is restored during a helm update

[cyclinder]

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What issue(s) does this PR fix:

Fixes #4357
Fixes #4344

Special notes for your reviewer:

When the admin executes the helm upgrade for spiderpool, the configMap spiderpool-multus, webhookconfig and secrets these manifest files are restored. which can raises issues: #4357 and #4344.

To solve these issues, we add helm hook annotations("helm.sh/hook": pre-install) to these manifests, when helm upgrade spiderpool, these files wouldn't be updated.

执行 Helm 更新时，一些资源如 configMap, webhookconfig, secret 会被 helm 还原为初始配置，但这些资源都会在 spiderpool 运行时动态更新，所以当 helm 更新后，配置被还原这导致 pod webhook 和 multus 无法工作。

所以在这些资源清单文件上添加 helm hook 的 annotation: helm.sh/hook": pre-install, 这期望这些资源只会在安装时下发，而不会在 helm update 时重新下发。

但这里会有一个其他的问题：如果老版本没有如上的 annotation，更新上来后存量的 configMap, webhookconfig, secret 会被删除（这是helm的机制，如果老版本有如上的 annotations，问题不存在）。所以为了避免该情况下，这些资源被 helm 删除，加上另外一个 annotation: helm.sh/resource-type: keep, 但这会导致这些资源残留。所以在 delete-hook 中清理这些资源。

[cyclinder]

有个问题：执行升级时，如果之前老版本这些资源没有这个 annotation hook，会导致升级时这些资源被删除